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Friday, November 29, 2013

New Beginnings and new year approaching

The year started off like garbage but, the year is now ending great because my spirituality is getting better and, I have a new job that I've been on for two weeks now so, the outcome of the new year seems to be very good,  If I can come to the end of this year keeping the position that I have then I can feel great about myself once again because its been five long years since I had a decent paycheck and, now that I am having  one of the weekly basis its great.

I just got a manicure that was overdue for months on end and, I am waiting to get a deserving pedicure because I am overdue about three years on the pedicure.  Its amazing how one decision five years ago would make a difference in my life and, how it would affect me from getting other positions that paid decently.  I now know that I can rest easy to make it through another year with a position that I can state that I can wake up and be happy about for years on end.

This year I plan to make a difference in my life and, a difference in what I do with the decisions that I make.  I plan to be more honest and re-evaluate my health so, this is the year of new beginnings and, 2014 is the year of seeing if I can keep a job longer than I did five years ago.  I hope that I can make a better example from what I did in my past.  I don't want to mess this opportunity like I did the last.  

Sunday, September 29, 2013

Life Assessment; Rethinking my Morals and Values

Once again faith has lead you back to the lonely land that I reside in.......
I had time to rethink my life and things that are more important but, it does not seem like everyone else is going into the direction that I am going; its like I see a bunch of people running towards the cliff and jumping off before realizing that the waters at the bottom are too strong to swim once they see the real deal.  There is a price to pay in life whether good or bad; there are things that can be expected and unexpected.  I truly wish that I can figure out how to maintain my standards in these troubling times that we are forced to endure for, we have no chance to change what has already happened so far.

I look back on my life to see the mistakes that I have done and, I cannot go back too change some of those things because the door has been closed for good; I can reference from experience to see what I can do to make myself a better individual in the near future.  I want to love and be kind to those that show it to me because I learned its easier to be nice rather than be mean; it takes too much energy to be mean to a person rather than to be nice to a person.

Maintaining a low income job is better than having no job at all; though there are some people worst off than me right now because there are people in their twenties that have to file for, bankruptcy which strips them of their dignity; however, I had that option many years ago but, I decided that I can pull myself out of that mess which I did eventually thanks to managing my finances and living below my means of life.  Talking to a financial planner proved to be the best decision that I ever made and, making sure that I lived by what has been put in place has helped me in the long run.

Its a shame that others think they know so much that they  can do without the aid of a financial planner and a financial advisor to keep their heads above water but, most of the time they fail like the others before them.

Maintaining my finances is one guide that has helped me but, there are other things that helped me as well.

Its quite shameful on how people think what important as well as what is right and what is wrong. 

Christian Separateness

Read Psalms 19: 7-9, 11; Ezekiel 3: 17-19, Mark 12: 17, John 17:15, Acts 4:31, Romans 13:7, 1 Corinthians 6: 9-10, Philippians 4:8, Colossians 3:23.
Keeping separate from the world, wow this is a subject that I like to talk about more in detail with those around who are looking for answer on how to maintain High Morals; these are troubling and disturbing times that are hard to deal with but, with proper association the times seem to go better when making sure that you are on the watch at all times.
What do we see in the world today?  I see those fornicating in many ways such as cohabitation without the pursuit of marriage, those having a wife as well as a mistress in order to keep an interesting sex life, going by what they see in media such as stars doing things that are immoral but, no one thinks its wrong and, many other raunchy things that make me wonder what people I am forced to share this day in age with.
Positive association, excellent meeting attendance, prayer, proper bible study, and preaching work is the foundations that are needed to maintain spiritual conduct.
As a young adult I find those whom live outside god's laws and the scriptures listed above to be living a life of no morals or very little morals; I also find that many feel that being chaste is old fashion and, marriage is a waste of time.
The bible itself provides five components for true Christians to follow and, scriptures that are based on these five important components that Jehovah god has provided.
  • Marriage Union must be honorable
  • Headship principle must be respected by Christians
  • Christians parents responsibility by children
  • Christian should marry only Christians
  • Polygamy not scriptural
I am going to provide scriptures later on when writing about these five components of the proper christian marriage and, this is one way of keeping separate from the world in the view of marriage for, there are those whom do not think marriage is important as it is.   Marriage is very important and there are benefits of being married as well as not being married; there are ways that marriage protects you as well as how marriage keeps the morals alive and well.
A Chinese Proverb once said "A vacant mind is open to suggestions", now keeping all of this in mind could help make sure that you are not going to make the wrong decisions.  Marriage on the basis of Christian and secular marriage is a start for some but, there are others out there I can also give by example.
Have you ever notice magnets with opposite poles attract? Have you notice those with the same poles repel?  What does that mean for you when you are dealing with people of the world and, ones whom are true Christians?
Things that we see in the world can make us like two same poles that repel but, seeing what we see in God's word the bible attracts us like two opposite poles.   Which is true when we have proper bible study on the normal daily basis and, more importantly looking at God's laws that are given to us in the scriptures in the bible help us to better understand what is expected of us as true Christian.
Now in the time of World War II during the Nazi era there were Christians in the concentration camps along with other religious groups; a true Christian would not stop his duties that have been set in place for him by God's words the bible but, we would try to perform any task put in front of him no matter how difficult that task may have been in order to show respect to a higher authority.   This holds true to this very day when we are obeying the laws of the land and the laws that Jehovah God has set in place for us which is even greater.   Remember what was said in Mark 12:17" Pay Cesar's things to Cesar but, Jehovah's things to Jehovah"; this is one of two important scriptures that keeps us separate from this world another scripture that I would like you to read is Acts 5: 29-32.   In addition please read Romans 13: 1,7 which talks about obeying the laws of the land which in turn keeps up separate from this world; it also provides a foundation of what keeps us different from those who are violating both laws the laws of man and the laws of Jehovah.
Interesting after you read these scriptures that what I am trying to tell you is nothing that is not true and, things that we see all the time no matter what part of the world we go into because we can see that this day and age people are drawing away from Jehovah God rather towards him.   There are many things that are out here that can keep us drawing away from Jehovah rather than closer to him, for example, if I make some money off of my dogs by fighting and not doing it again its okay-one step closer.   If I go on this pornography site and watch these two women make love to one another and turn away to never look at it again its okay-one step closer.   If I play this game that is consider violent but, I am only scarying people till the point they kill themselves, the people aren't real so that's okay because killing 2 or 3 out of thirty is not too bad-one step closer.   This guy invented me to have a party and he'll give me $100 which is not too bad because you are being paid to have fun-one step closer.
Things like that and many other things can make the difference in how a person maintains moral conduct, I also would like you friends to read 2 Corinthians 7:1 on keeping physically and spiritually clean because as we see there are not too many of us other that are keeping these standards.
I would love for you to be back next week on another article that is based on God's words the bible and the article is entitled "God's Friends Do what is Good"; I hope that this one has helped you to rethink your moral conduct as well as help you to enrich and influence others to follow the same trait.

Sunday, September 22, 2013

Modest, proper money management and more

I had to rethink my standards once again today......I was not happy of what I saw in my quest to becoming a woman of high morals and, understanding myself like a true Christian woman.  I have a hard time sacrificing a few things and learning what is more important but, I have come a long way of trying to be myself and embracing things that I have been overlooking in the past.

My first step was and is modesty which is not as bad as I thought it was but, now I see that there are more and more reasons to keep living a modest existence rather than that of what I thought was cool; I also learned that I don't have to spend a ton of money to make me look good there are other ways of looking my best but, it does not mean that every one is going to accept me for who I am.

My first step is probably going to be my hardest, getting my hair done at a cosmetology school and pay them to do it.  I found three in the nearby area and, I figured that they can do a decent job and this will help me progress on to be a feminine woman and keeping a modest appearance.

The local community college has this price list and, its dreading to think how I will look afterwards.


  1. Blow Dry / Marcel$11.00
  2. Deep Color Rinse$1.00
  3. Deep Cond. Treatment$2.00
  4. Design Set$20.00
  5. Design Set with perms iron work etc.add'l cost $5.00
  6. Facial$10.00
  7. Haircut - No Shampoo$8.00
  8. Haircut, Shampoo, Blow Dry$16.00
  9. Hair Removal - Brow, Lip or Chin$5.00
  10. Highlights / Lightening$30.00
  11. Lash & Brow Tinting$7.00
  12. Manicure / Hand Massage$8.00
  13. Paraffin Wax Dip$3.00
  14. Pedicures$15.00
  15. Press & Curl - Long Hair$30.00
  16. Press & Curl - Short Hair$22.00
  17. Scalp Treatment$16.00
  18. Shampoo / Blow Dry$11.00
  19. Shampoo / Set$8.00
  20. Wig Care & Styling$8.00
  21. Semi-Permanent Color$15.00
  22. Permanent Color$20.00
  23. Perm. Wave or Relaxer$30.00
  24. Soft Curl or Spiral Perm$50.00
  25. Shampoo/Design Braids**
  26. ** No discount on the $15 base fee only per braid fee
  27. *$15.00 base
  28. plus $1 per braid
  29. Straight Back Braids$1 per braid
Virginia College of Greensboro has this price list that varies from location to location but, I am willing to give these people a try to do my hair and nails if I choose to.

Empire Beauty School of Greensboro is another one that I am trying to figure out and, its the closest one to home but, they don't do nails only hair so, I am wondering what can they do for me with my hair.  


Please note prices may vary by location. Please call your local school for more information on service pricing in your desired location
  • 7 Foils (with Another Hair Service)
  • $12
  • Braid/Extension/Twist Removal (Shampoo, Conditioner, Blow-Dry)
  • $40
  • Braids & Twist (Shampoo, Conditioner, Blow-Dry)
  • $30L, $35M, $40S
  • Clipper Cut (Shampoo, Conditioner)
  • $5
  • Color Rinse (Add on)
  • $5
  • Corrective Color (Shampoo, Conditioner, Blow Dry)
  • BY CONSULTATION
  • Extensions Per Track ((Guest Supplies Hair) $20 Braid Required Shampoo, Conditioner, Glue-In/Sew-In Extensions, Blow-Dry)
  • $10
  • Full Foil* (Shampoo, Conditioner, Blow Dry)
  • $38
  • Haircolor* (Shampoo, Conditioner, Blow Dry)
  • $25
  • Haircut (Shampoo, Conditioner, Blow Dry)
  • $9
  • Kids Haircut (5 Yrs Old & Under) (Shampoo, Conditioner, Blow Dry)
  • $5
  • Partial Foil* (Shampoo, Conditioner, Blow Dry)
  • $25
  • Party Girl Package ((12 Yrs Old & Under) Quick Up-Do, Polish, Makeup, Tiara)
  • $10
  • Perm* (Haircut, Blow Dry)
  • $25
  • Premium Hair Extensions** (First pack of hair included)
  • $50
  • Premium Hair Extensions** ((Single Addition))
  • $6 EACH
  • Reformation Curl* (Blow Dry)
  • $40
  • Relaxer/Retouch* (Shampoo, Conditioner, Blow Dry)
  • $35
  • Shampoo, Blow Dry or Set (Shampoo, Conditioner, Blow Dry)
  • $7
  • Special Occasion Up-Do* (Any Formal Hairstyle)
  • $20 & UP
  • Thermal Add On (Use of Flat, Curling or Pressing Iron)
  • $3
* Additional charges apply, starting at $10.00 for more product usage.
**Premium Hair must be prepaid at the time of consultation.
I am wondering what will be my look after a few months of having my hair done and my nails done with these girls because this is going to be a change that I hope is for the better.  This will also help me with the proper money management that has eluded me for many years and, I need to manage money better in unexpected cases as well as expected.  I have been neglectful of the reality that has been in my face for the longest and, it seems that others are not looking at it the same way.

I also need to learn to stick to one thing and put my mind to it and, stop going across the board....when I learn to accept somethings I will be a happier person.  

Greater Importance for Christian Morals

After attending my Christian congregation meeting on Separateness from the world, I learned that there are more things that I needed to do in order to maintain better conduct and, now I need to learn more about myself as a person and look for other forms of pleasure rather than doing things that can hinder my love for, Jehovah God and other fellow believers next Sunday I will have the full transcript ready of what I learned from my Sunday meeting and, I hope that you all enjoy it.  

Tuesday, September 17, 2013

Its been a real long time since I last updated

Its been a while since I've been on blogger and, there are times that I find myself wondering what will become of my blog if I ever stop blogging; it looks quite lonely at times and, I know there are not much things that I can do since I have nothing to show for it.   I am going to just be me and, express my feelings like the way I was meant to and, I wonder will I learn in my journey of being independent as well as unique.

What I have learned so far in my life and where do I go from here?

I learned that there are five important aspects in my life such as proper eating, exercise, getting enough sleep, cleanliness and maintaining my spirituality in check at all times; the other things that I have been chasing for are unimportant and don't help me out at all unless its found necessary by the higher calling.  I learned that soon as I am finished with my schooling if its meant I can go on to graduate school but, if its not meant to be then I have nothing else to push for but, maintain a career at the status that it is now.  

I learned that I don't need a nice car just something to get me where I need to go, and I learned that I do not need a upscale house just something to keep me safe and dry in the coming storms based on the seasons.  I can be happy with the small things in life rather having the big things in life.   I do not need to jet set to Hawaii every year but, I can be happy going to the mountains or the lake whenever I get the chance.

There are a lot of things that I can be happy about and, I can find ways of enjoying myself like take a day trip to the coastlines and, spend time with close family and friends.  I do not need those rich things to be happy nor make me complete; there is more to life than can be imagined.  

I don't judge people on what they have nor envy what they have anymore because I learned that there are times that the grass is not always greener on the other side; sometimes we need to rethink our beliefs and go on from there. I learned to accept gifts from people who think about me and care about me enough to get it for me without me asking; in my younger years I was quite selfish but, now I've changed because life is not about storing up treasure and things like that; life is more enjoying it with those whom share the same interest as you and believe in you no matter what.

I have learned so much and, I tend to reflect better on it since my recent experience of dealing with people of all works of life; so what if I am given handmade socks or a sweater that has many colors that may not fit together.   Its the thought that counts doesn't it?

Where do I go on from here? 

I go on to make myself a better person in the eyes of my heavenly father Jehovah God, I will put my faith, my trust and my strength in him at all times.  I am going to live my life in his guidance and not the guidance of man.  I have so much to offer and I am willing to submit to my elders and be taught things that will benefit me in my life compared to those who do not wish to listen.

I want to learn and I want to know more as much as possible.  

Thank you for visiting and see you when the paths meet again.....

Sunday, July 8, 2012

Nature Smarts

In my other blog I mention the beauty that the world has to offer and that is so true but, how does one know about the cloud formations, wind patterns and the environment in which the live in? That is called Nature Smarts which are important to some people because in order to survive in the wild they need that type of smart to move on to the next level. 

Not to many people are good enough to understand the nature that surrounds them so, when certain statements mention "you wouldn't last one day in the wild" most of the time that is a saying that you do not have the nature smarts to survive in the wild.

Most mistakes people make in the wild is not knowing the directions they are going and to bring enough food with them before they make their trip into the great wilderness so, they end up injured or dead. 

There are different types of smarts but, do you think that you have nature smarts.